Life is Like... Reality TV?

The other day, I heard myself tell a funny story, and I had to laugh.

I was up on the farm, and this Amish guy, Levi, was working on our cabin. Actually, he was in the process of building it. As you may or may not know, the Amish culture has a different communication style between men and women and between husband and wife. At times, Levi would overhear my wife and I having an argumentative conversation, and I would catch him smiling and turning away. It took me a few times to figure out what was happening and what was funny. There was one particular time Sook noticed him laughing. When she shot me a questioning look, I couldn’t resist and turned to Levi.

“Levi,” I said, “You may not know about this because, being Amish, you don’t have a television nor watch TV shows. But there is something called Reality TV, and people pay a lot of money to watch it. But YOU, my friend, are getting it for Free!”

Adjusting the Temperature

Everyone laughed at that, and I decided to use it with my team at work. There are many times and days when work can be a stressful environment. During one particularly difficult time, we were gathered together for a meeting, and I thought it might be a good time to adjust the team perspective.

“Hey, everyone, I know it’s been a stressful and frustrating week. I wonder how we could look at it from a different perspective?”

Being engineering-type people, everyone stared at me blankly without speaking, waiting for the catch. I waited until they got bored enough to talk about their experiences, and then I added this.

“I don’t mean to demean what you’ve been through because I know it isn’t easy. Think of it like this… You get to star in a reality TV show called [name of corporation]. You cannot get this kind of entertainment on TV because you get to participate in it. And the best part is, you are getting paid for it!”

That elicited a laugh and broke the ice, and it did help people shake off the burdens of the day.

You can use this type of communication to help people experience a new attitude and perspective with a subtle shift in thinking. All it takes is awareness of the situation and the ability to not jump into the fray.